Dear Husband, I am sorry. When I would talk about my day, he would seem to do everything to cancel me out, not listening to what I was saying. So today, when I was asked 'why men cheat' by a young lady during a Public Speaking event, I was initial hesitant to share the full conversation me and my EX had about her suspicion of my lack of loyalty. Years ago, this man moved into her home, never paid a dime in rent and never worked a day that they were together. For me, giving my husband autonomy over his own choices, making the decision to trust him, and creating a culture of honesty and emotional safety in my marriage has not only given me an honest husband but greater intimacy with him. 3 So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. Lighten my path, direct my steps. He confessed a couple of months later that he was having an affair with his receptionist. That's why I can relate to your story. I had things to do, places to go. then i have to remind myself to thank god every. He did not chance he is the same person. My husband constantly cheats. I believe God will bless me with the reunion I much desire to have with him. It turns out I needed to be just where I am. My husband has a baby by another woman. When Christians fail you, though, that doesn't mean that God forgets you. He has a plan for you, Anna. When I finally did speak to him and asked him if he was coming to the hospital. He was an awesome person and a loving husband and father. 3 So then, if she has sexual relations with another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress. How to win back your spouse when he or she is in love with another person and wanting to leave you to pursue the other relationship with their lover. I asked God to guide me toward what he wanted. Ur beauty makes me run mad, if u dont want me near u, then y did God created u. We have an exit plan, which consist of training & some other things, so we don’t leave the ministry in a bad way. It gives me hope that when we finally move out of living with my parents and into our first home together I can let my husband finally have some more control and dominance and say in our choices. My husband abused me physically and mentally, got me pregnant, abadoned us and then divorced me. Nothing happened for many months. I love to wear pantyhose and panties. Don't blame your spouse for being upset. She does this to everyone around her and I'm sure it is only a matter of time till she has to leave her dads for the same reasons. My ex's mother told me that she had gotten a phone from the child's mother when the girl was a year old and that child's mother had told her that she thought her baby was his, so my ex's mother told the girl to let her current husband raise the baby as his because her son was now married ( we had just gotten married must have been. First let me give my sincere condolence to you concerning your husband. Sometimes it is about them, when they walk out, and what they need to get from life and for their personal happiness and well being. Why I Want My Sons To See Me Naked I've never refrained from changing clothes in front of them, or leaving the door open when I shower, or nursing babies without a cover. We remain close to this day. And often either the husband doesn't buy this for a second, or any doubts that he might have override his need to leave and just see what happens. “Can you tell me why all men cheat on loyal Women?” a curly haired PreMed student asked me today, during my public speak to a room. Don't keep telling yourself and others that "he won't let me go", because the real issue to consider is why do you continue to allow him to stay. I've let my faith slip because of my anger and resentment and that has also been unhealthy for me. The Four M’s of why cheaters cannot leave their affair partners can make it very difficult to end an affair, but never impossible. He has cheated while I was pregnant with both my children and even left me when I was pregnant with the first one and attempted to sleep with a prostitute when I was pregnant with the second one. But he understands and is very supportive - especially now that we've found a good routine that works for our family. After 23 years of marriage and three very godly kids, my husband cheated on me. It is a fundamental, philosophical, spiritual divide of the mind and heart that, for me, is now impossible to reconcile. My parents have been separated for 17 years or so, and it was an awful thing for my sister and I (and my Dad – Mum left him for another man) to go through. I thought it might cost me my relationship with my parents forever. Now I know that’s exactly what I’m doing. No matter how much you try to be the best wife for him, it’s never enough. 30b [see also John 12. I would leave because I would no longer be able to trust the leaders of the church to interpret the word of God properly. My husband doesn’t want me to work because he wants to make sure our kids are well taken care of — by me. I know I will have guilt at some point. In this section we are going to focus on a husbands responsibility to his wife. And when they see that you are standing, they have no other choice but to acknowledge that this is the Lord's doing. 5 Ways to Let Go and Let God… 1. They will have differing opinions about how you should treat your cheating husband, and whether or not your marriage can, or should be saved. Let Go – Let God Handle It! By Mary Kupferle. When I moved back home to Chicago,. I am sorry about loss of your husband. For most of my marriage, I struggled with one decision: stay or leave. Truly, history shows that the "wages" of sin (disobedience to God's laws and commandments) is death, suffering, sadness and sorrow. Being sappy isn’t love. Where I always thought I need a man to validate me, I learned to be happy with myself. Shirlie Kemp says recording an album with her husband Martin has helped her deal with empty nest syndrome. He has a plan for you, Anna. When Christians fail you, though, that doesn't mean that God forgets you. I am scared I will let go of him totally because I just at times feel like his word says for who he has chosen I havent been chosen for much of anything my entire life. You and your husband have slipped into an unhealthy pattern. Why did she want to do something so dangerous?. I asked God to give me insight into what was causing his rage. He's probably feeling justified, but being mean is HIS failure nonetheless. She had only been to the vet once in her life (for a removal of an infected nail) and had lived indoors all her life. Why did you wife leave? Because, " each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. wouldn't allow my parents to sleep in the same room, a very embarrassing fact to share but my father's mother made him stay in her mom and made. Thank you so much for whoever answered this question, why does God allow sickness. Create in him a clean heart. It is a stumbling block for some of us, and for many more at given moments of tragedy. He has been cheating on me for the past 6 months with a coworker. After the first year of marriage and the baby refused to come, I became worried and told my husband of my fears but he reassured me of his love and commitment, saying that we should put our trust in God as He alone will answer our prayers when the time was right. she one day says to me after all seemed ok (not great but ok) don't ever touch me again I want out, this was out of the blue to me. He has a plan for you, Anna. For most of my marriage, I struggled with one decision: stay or leave. Jesus is not an uncaring tyrant over the church. [21 August 2018] I love you. People wait for the air to fill up with romance by having a candlelit dinner and roses by their side, but for me, romance is in the air 24x7 as long as you're by my side. It feels really bad when you fall in love with someone you can’t have. We hear the phrase "let go and let God" a lot. He said yes. A healthy marriage is a beautiful relationship, but it can be a lot of hard work. He had swept me off my feet with his words and wit. The best way to prevent husbands from cheating in marriage is to know why they stray from their wives. I used to complain that my husband was a mess, but guess what…he was MY mess. Rather than healing me, God used the trial to redirect me, first, toward a desperate dependence on him, and second, to the path of purpose and destiny he had planned for my life. My husband just returned after leaving our home for a year. ive been gloomy and desperate and mean to others. I have told her that I still love her and she has told me that she loves me. That was me. You are aware that you are going out with a cheating husband - you're the 'other woman'. I believe that He died for my sin and that you raised Him to life. Have you called Ben? We need to pack a bag. It is something that all people wonder why. Thank you so much for whoever answered this question, why does God allow sickness. God Help Me – Finding a Life That’s Worth Living When you cry out, “God help me,” do you believe that there is a more fulfilling life ahead? A relationship with a dedicated and loving Heavenly Father changes your worldview from a temporary to an eternal perspective (2 Corinthians 4:17-18). And even when I let it out of my chest, it wasn’t love. When I would talk about my day, he would seem to do everything to cancel me out, not listening to what I was saying. What a wonderful thread, I was in a kind of relationship with an elderly gentleman, he told me often to find someone else, I did then he said he loved me, didn’t want to lose me so I stayed and suffered the consequences of his anger, he was forever telling me I was crazy and shoving my mind crazy down his neck,i am doing a bachelor in. I know it’s embarrassing…trust me, I was completely embarrassed but I did it for my husband & I’m so glad I did it. Do not disqualify them before trying it out. I thought that God did not care and did not love me anymore since He did not answer my prayers to find a church and have Christian friends. Scott Meadows) "Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself and let the wife see that she respects her husband" (Ephesians 5:33). Who are we to decide how a person shall be punished. So the best way, let it go. For some people, this has been twisted to mean the husband is the boss and the wife's job is to obey his every whim. God has never been shocked or embarrassed with what I feel. Attend unto me, and hear me: I mourn in my complaint, and make a noise; Because of the voice of the enemy, because of the oppression of the wicked: for they cast iniquity upon me, and in wrath they hate me. While we don't want to minimize the pain you feel in any way, we do want to try to help you look more closely at why you feel singled out and whether or not you've arrived at a valid conclusion. This script is a transcript that was painstakingly transcribed using the screenplay and/or viewings of Divine Secrets Of The Ya Ya Sisterhood. Why Men Commit Suicide: The Three Warning Signs Most People Miss. Remind yourself that he or she doesn't want to be upset--nobody likes being upset. I have been in your shoes twice and I am stilll trying to understand why things happened the way they happen. He hears your cries!. My daughter who worked on Mars projects at NASA studying rocks tells me even old fossils change. A healthy marriage is a beautiful relationship, but it can be a lot of hard work. Why Would My Cheating Husband Want To Stay With Me? By: Katie Lersch: Many wives doubt the sincerity of what their husband is saying after he cheated or had an affair. October 5, 2009 at 4:02 pm. he started seeing his now girlfriend 1 week after he left me. I know, I know, I still need to get the cast names in there and I'll be eternally tweaking it, so if you have any corrections, feel free to drop me a line. not to mention mine. Let's trade places!‚" When she started climbing on my shoulders like we were doing a cheerleading stunt, I knew that she had no intention of waiting for me to stop the car before she pushed me out of the driver's seat. I am sorry about loss of your husband. Why Did My Child Have To Die? If you are like me, you have asked God for answers. There is no other book on earth that will bring about inner peace and eternal life. Heartbroken I am left to carry on with our children alone trying not to let them see my pain. Since his time being with me I have not seen my other 3 boys. Why Are My Feelings Being Completely Ignored? September 24, 2012 Thomas Van Relationships 87 In today’s world there seems to be an ever growing common problem in relationships where one person (**cough**, usually the woman) thinks that her man doesn’t understand or respect her feelings. Garcia i miss him so much and I can’t help but cry each and every day. Help! My Husband Just Left Me. I've been married to my husband 6 yrs & in that time I've been sick maybe 4 times. God will equip you to follow Him on this mission as her husband. Sex is like that. I couldn’t understand why He didn’t give me a wife. Let me not settle because I am lonely and lonesome, but let me wait on you. It took me 6 weeks before I confided everything in my husband because I didn't want to hurt his feelings, but I felt like I was lying to him by omitting it. I would quickly leave my church if it started to have women preach from the pulpit. He did not chance he is the same person. Your loss is so similar to mine. Instead, God wanted to use my singleness to make me into someone who would initiate sacrificial love towards other people. Has God forgotten me? Does He hate me? Why does He seem to hide Himself? I am weary of my comforters, tired of His defenders. Marriage is instituted by God. god help me to get through this. Do not leave me, stay quite near me and defend me against the spirit of evil. They are serving me. In this section we are going to focus on a husbands responsibility to his wife. Luckily, if you're a Christian, you have the benefit of God's word to help guide your marriage. In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. When Christians fail you, though, that doesn't mean that God forgets you. Sometimes my husband is away for his work or she is away for her work. My wife did the same to me two years ago. Why Are My Feelings Being Completely Ignored? September 24, 2012 Thomas Van Relationships 87 In today’s world there seems to be an ever growing common problem in relationships where one person (**cough**, usually the woman) thinks that her man doesn’t understand or respect her feelings. God is good!! I got my strength from the scripture that tells me how God feels about marriage. " "From the day I married my husband, I knew it was a mistake," says 50-year-old Elizabeth Smith. So today, when I was asked ‘why men cheat’ by a young lady during a Public Speaking event, I was initial hesitant to share the full conversation me and my EX had about her suspicion of my lack of loyalty. I’ve tried to communicate over the years and ask if I did something to offend them or upset them to come to clear the air but everybody says nothing is wrong but they always treat me like I dont matter. So the best way, let it go. This lie really grieves me deeply, because it is probably responsible for more pain and abuse than any other lie we've looked at in this article. It is court ordered that I get my visits but it’s been a sad turnout of my ex husband keeping me from them. For those muslimah who are not happy about the content, please remember the topic is “7 Things Your Muslim Husband Won’t Tell You”. For most of my marriage, I struggled with one decision: stay or leave. There is no other book on earth that will bring about inner peace and eternal life. I love you from the distance,I love you behind high walls of your home. And often either the husband doesn't buy this for a second, or any doubts that he might have override his need to leave and just see what happens. The anointing has become an experience so that God is not confined to the Scripture alone. The lady that he is seeing is not his help meat. How not to let annoying people annoy you. Sometimes we suffer because of our own mistakes. I just want my family to be whole and healed. We have been to marriage counseling three times. Cheese's, but as a kid I enjoyed running around the ball pit. This is more than an issue of one policy and its semantics. Lord God position him to hear from you God. The Four M’s of why cheaters cannot leave their affair partners can make it very difficult to end an affair, but never impossible. U are my life so, I cant leave u cause u are holding something that belongs 2 me which is my life. To outsiders, my husband and I appeared to be the perfect couple. I prayed over him when we were together even if he was sleeping – I would lay. When we married many said it wouldnt last we had very little support other than parents, my husband did ask my fathers permission, we both had good jobs and brought our own home, furnished with lots of second hand things, i had no washing machine etc but we were together and thats all that mattered, we took our time to get to know each other, we always speak about how we feel, i dont play games with his feelings, we are always honest and trust eachother, now we both know how we feel about. God had better plans for me. Eventually my husband and I stopped going to church because everything reminded us of what happened to the girls. Viewing 15 posts - 1 through 15 (of 34 total) 1 2 3 → Author Posts September 26, 2014 at 9:09 am #65608 Petra123Participant Hi, this is a really long story but will try. Her eating habits were normal. when I stopped the car he told me that my son was dead. Sex is a gift from God. A female reader, bessy +, writes (8 February 2011): know how you're feeling my husband of nearly 20 years left me 3 weeks ago for another woman he had been seeing on and off for years. Why is this? Because when Jesus came into my life the first thing that happened, was that I began to notice the difference in things that are meant for good, and things that are meant for evil. In fact, you should carry yourself as a woman who is the best because you did nothing wrong and you had the integrity to stay true to your marriage. I will not roll on dead seagulls, fish, crabs, etc. The love I have for you is the only thing that keep me going. by Cynthia (Contra Costa County) My husband has been having an affair with a woman for about 2 years. He committed before my emergency of taking his oldest daughter and her friend to the gym. does my husband remember me after he died - Didi Just wanted to drop by and let you know that I think about you often. i really love my husband we been separated 3 years and I want him back but he hates me for the wrong reasons, things we should have done in the beginning as a couple, but did not has now turned into a nightmare and I just want him back to show him that all I really wanted was to love him only and build a home with him, that's why I married him. The truth is that you have been ignoring God most of your life and you have been following your own desires which led you to a messed up life. That covenant cannot be broken by an unscriptural divorce. There are excuses after excuses he gives you whenever you demand him to leave…”Me and my wife are just like room mates, I am not happy in my marriage and only staying because of my kids. “I'm going to hold on and wait for You to show me Your kindness and Your love, no matter what happens. Is Divorce the unpardonable sin? Matthew 12:31-32 (NKJV) "Therefore I say to you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven men. My husband and his parents are very strong in their faith but I got so tired of hearing them say how they were trusting in God to take care of them, as if they had no responsibility in it at all. I look around at all the Christians who say that they help people who don't know how to ask for it, but they have not even noticed my pain. (She committed her ex-husband into the keeping and care of God. I asked God to guide me toward what he wanted. Thank you for the advice. he’d tell me that I just. After reading through the entire article and all the responses, I feel it was God talking to me. The Beginning of Suffering and Sorrow. “Can you tell me why all men cheat on loyal Women?” a curly haired PreMed student asked me today, during my public speak to a room. Exodus 13: 17, "And it came to pass, when Pharaoh had let the people go, that God led them not through the way of the land of the Philistines, although that was near; for God said, Lest peradventure the people repent when they see war, and they return to Egypt: " We find in this scripture that God did not take the short route. Thank you so much for whoever answered this question, why does God allow sickness. ) Also, I found out my husband did very well financially t/o the years. My pastor told me he was goin to try to pull me away from God and he did 2012 i felt in a same relationship then one day i met my nephew girlfriend brother that same year but he never said a word to me over the next 4yrs he kept askin about me but i couldnt even remember meetin him bcuz we never said nothing to each other to fast forward doin. Besides I grew up without my father and would not let me kids repeat it. "It felt like God's cruel joke. or his deep desire to leave me but his inability to tell me. Ever since our first breakup I felt God many times telling me he was my future husband. I so loved reading everyone comments, well my husband cheated on me,he said he didnt sleep with anyone so he didn’t call it cheating, yes we married, and i trust in the Lord he said if he forgives us why not forgive others,so i did it was hard,but we got threw it,and now he dont want to loose me,cause he see that i walking by Gods word andnow. Home→Forums→Tough Times→Inlaws hate me, husband allows it New Reply This topic contains 33 replies, has 22 voices, and was last updated by Marisa 2 years, 7 months ago. As an owner of Italian grayhound and a pug, I have enjoyed those lovely licks but to be frank, I am not a big fan of a dog licking especially on my face. I am Christian and I can't easily break a family. Like Cato’s story, the vet told me that they would open Bailey up, and depending on the existence and virulence of cancer, would leave it up to me to make the decision to euthanize him. You are aware that you are going out with a cheating husband – you’re the ‘other woman’. My husband and I did not get to do many of the things we had planned to do together. If she is against God which means she is a servant of lucifer. She wont talk to our pastors wife or anyone other then her circle. Rather than an excess of painful emotion, it was the lack of pain, the lack of feeling, that was the undercurrent of all the surface turmoil. I have forgiven my husband for his past transgressions against me, even now, as I stand in waiting for my husband to return to me. If Satan also be divided against himself, how shall his kingdom stand? because ye say that I cast out devils through Beelzebub. "My husband was abusive. Ever since our first breakup I felt God many times telling me he was my future husband. He did not chance he is the same person. Let God handle. Allow your present circumstances to be an opportunity for you to deepen your faith and to depend completely on the Lord. I'm sorry that your needs are secondary. See Why Women Stay with Men who Cheat. I have displaced my why to my mate, to common culture, etc. Because I did not trust fathers. Has God forgotten me? Does He hate me? Why does He seem to hide Himself? I am weary of my comforters, tired of His defenders. Help him to honor our marriage vows and commitment that we made to each other in the eyes of God. Does he regret what he did? Does he think about me?” I dated the MVP of the emotionally unavailable , toxic species and yes, he broke my heart and YES, I was totally tying my worth to his post-breakup inaction but I didn’t care. Afterwards, she dragged him out into the parking lot and demanded it was time to leave. I justified the transgressions as elements that made me “grow” out of my bad marriage, and gave me perspective! I cheated on my husband, and he would relentlessly pursue me, stalk me, text me, and then threaten to “tell my husband” if I was not leaving our home. Why I Left the Mormon Church Richard Packham. I am definitely a control freak , I admit that, but its been so hard not to seem ALWAYS in control when we live with my parents and family (only. The infection was causing his organs to shut down and he was at the point of no recovery (among other things kidney shut down, causing fluid retention,. Your loss is so similar to mine. I wanted to leave due to the abuse she put me thru so many times because I loved God more then my own happiness, but now it just feels like why did I stay only to be faced with divorce. Let me explain: My father’s best friend since summer camp, “Uncle” John, had known Jason and me separately our whole lives, but Jason and I had never met. A marriage may take place in a church building, and it is certainly in order for Christians to pray and ask God’s blessing on a marriage. My husband hates me because he basically hates all women. However, this is easier said than done. I know it was wrong but I was scared. (Proverbs 11:24) • God, you said, You know the plans you have for me, plans to prosper, not to be harmed and a future. He could have stopped my husband; he SHOULD have stopped my husband. It just is. There are two very little people who are the bosses while we try so hard to. In such cases the Christian partner, whether husband or wife, is free to act. The first year of our relationship was great! The sweetest man. God is good. I did not intend for this article to be a biography, but I felt that the reader ought to know these pertinent points. My friends have told me over and over to let go because I will never be. Scott Meadows) "Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself and let the wife see that she respects her husband" (Ephesians 5:33). Through Jesus Christ we are FREE to be ourselves while obeying the Holy Spirit and Loving God with all we have. In other words, God does not allow divorce for emotion abuse, only for physical abuse. I’d done years of stomach churning skin crawling leave you cold and dead inside sex, because you can’t have a sex less marriage so you have to put out like it or not. days now and my husband seems very depressed by it. Jesus is not an uncaring tyrant over the church. Deliver me from all of it. To my husband in this weird phase of marriage: Life is weird right now, huh? We don’t mean it to be. Updated 4:20 PM, September 9,2011. It never is His will for His people to join in marriage to unbelievers. Why did God take him and let other bad, sick, and older people live? I’m in continuous pain and suffering. I was in that kind of situation for many years. My wife left me a year ago and my divorce should be final in this coming month. God has called you to live in peace. He hears your cries!. She never asked how my children- her nephews- were, how my husband was, or how my job was going. My husband came home from work and got extremely mad at me over something stupid and threw all my clothes in my car and told me to leave. Tears of sadness connect to loss. He Keeps Popping In and Out of My Life: Why They Keep Coming Back I had a reader tell me that a man she had dated had come back into her life. Everybody, and when I say everybody, I mean EVERYBODY tells me I need to leave him. I mean, what can I do? I don’t want to get divorced, but my spouse does. But since the child was a month old, he stopped going to see the child on his own with no influence on me. My wife will let me wear my hose but she will not let me wear them during sex. They will be straining to catch a glimpse of our arrival, just like they did so many Christmas seasons when we flew into the Kansas City airport. Let Go – Let God Handle It! By Mary Kupferle. Rather than an excess of painful emotion, it was the lack of pain, the lack of feeling, that was the undercurrent of all the surface turmoil. Sex is a gift from God. he may continue as he likes. It is a fundamental, philosophical, spiritual divide of the mind and heart that, for me, is now impossible to reconcile. October 5, 2009 at 4:02 pm. He tells us He is the one that gives us children. I’d done years of stomach churning skin crawling leave you cold and dead inside sex, because you can’t have a sex less marriage so you have to put out like it or not. she called me at home and spoke to me, encouraged me and helped me see once again how wonderful our Lord Almighty is. For many years his commitment to serve people was genuine. He says, 'I used to ask "Why me?" Now I ask, "Why not me?"' I could give you a theological explanation for why God allows human beings like your husband the freedom to betray and hurt others, and if you get in touch again, I will do so, from the Bible. How I survived after my husband left me When I found out my marriage was over, I thought my life was over too. The anointing has become an experience so that God is not confined to the Scripture alone. He dressed me and ordered food f. I've been happily married for 3 years now, and if I described how my husband treats me, you would think I was telling a fairy tale. He confessed a couple of months later that he was having an affair with his receptionist. When I gave my heart to the Lord, it was just a matter of a month or so that the devil became a reality to me. If you missed the previous 3 posts, follow the links at the end of this post. She was sitting with me, and I had my arm around her for much of the service. It surely is a long and winding road; take my word for it. A hardened woman merits her husband’s compassion, not his arrogance. It has been about six or seven years since my last relationship and I do know for sure there is no baggage I'm holding on to, but I know that I need to work on me some more and strengthen my relationship with God. or his deep desire to leave me but his inability to tell me. I had to say over and over, “God, I confess my unforgiveness toward my husband. Many times his love for life were things that were destructive to the marriage…. Lord I pray that whichever forces that took my husband from me break them, give me back my husband Jesus E. But, I had to look at the whole picture and my kid, realized I have alot be grateful for and family and friends that cared enough to be there for me. I had a very similar issue with my ex husband and he wanted a divorce but I didn’t and I prayed to God about it. MY AP was married however, decided to humiliate my husband sweeping hins cane and telling the pathetic cripple he would just let things go as they had, don’t begrudge my being happy in his misery, MY husband carved that cane in occupational therapy, it stands 4’4″ tall Has titanium teeth in its mouth and weighs 13 pounds. How to let go? im sitting here at 4am because I can’t sleep. It is something that all people wonder why. I’m 33 years old. We had been married for 9 years and dated for 10. We hear the phrase "let go and let God" a lot. Death could never be so painful. "My husband was abusive. He finally left me and the family (1-15-2018), and already has a girlfriend. I had to stop being friends with females he did not like, he kept tabs on my comings and goings. God Help Me – Finding a Life That’s Worth Living When you cry out, “God help me,” do you believe that there is a more fulfilling life ahead? A relationship with a dedicated and loving Heavenly Father changes your worldview from a temporary to an eternal perspective (2 Corinthians 4:17-18). I prayed over him when we were together even if he was sleeping – I would lay. Is this allowed. God loves you. Summary: The Bible, Christians, and divorce. I was sad at first, and hurt, but eventually, that gave way to anger at God. I do leave the room when my husband begins to yell at me, mostly because I feel so humiliated and I don’t want to hear it or have our children hear it, but he follows me. Since it’s the most common form of showing affection, I haven’t thought much on why does my dog lick me until one day when I felt my bug was doing it excessively. The anointing has become an experience so that God is not confined to the Scripture alone. Close to me each and every day Why did you leave me alone? Why was it hard for you to call me on my phone? All you had to do was to be there And show to me that you care You promised to be always with me till the end You talk about being a lover and you failed to be a friend Do you remember when we were in love we`d talk every day?.